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Men's Needs and Women's Needs

If you want to be loved and feel love try loving someone.

Lately I have been sharing my experiences on relationship read alsothe best way to fall in love, you also read 4 lies that destroy relationship, and read 3 most  important things newlyweds couples should know and today I will share with you why some relationships and marriages have failed. Simply because we fail to understand the needs of the woman and the needs of the man.

Your wife feels loved when you are willing to help her out. Don't wait to be asked if you can help, then look at her in the eyes and say just another way to say, I love you. 

Pronounce love to her ears, to profess your indescribable love for her

Now I encourage you to let your wife come near, whether your need is large or small, emotional, physical, spiritual, intellectual, or material. A wife feels loved when you, her husband, trust her with your emotions. It is not a sign of weaken for a husband to share with hiswife this way. Like you have aneed so does she. Let both needs come together and make both parties happy. 

Treat me as I am and that's just where I will stay. Treat me as if I were what I could be and that's what I will become.                                                            Unknown author 

When you do this, you will probably also find yourself feeling closer to her because you both have taken care of each other's needs.

Treat me the best way to make me feel better and become the better person I should be. 

Men's Needs

Erotic desires and fulfillment 

Recreational companionship 

An attractive spouse 

Domestic support 

Admiration  


Women's Needs 

Affection 

Conversation 

Honesty and openness 

Financial support

Family commitment 

It's so unfortunate that men and women are often unaware of what their partners need. Why  so? Perhaps because some of us are looking for what we can get rather than what we can give. Most of us are more than willing and ready to give, but we don't know how to best meet our partner's needs.

Appreciating and recognizing these needs and meeting them for one another will mean a stronger marriage and the ability to get through the rocky times that come.

Your wife feels loved when you are willing to help her out. Don't wait to be asked if you can help, then look at her in the eyes and say just another way to say, I love you. 

Pronounce your love to your partner to make them feel better for you sincere indescribable love.

Now I encourage you to let your wife come near, whether your need is large or small, emotional, physical, spiritual, intellectual, or material. A wife feels loved when you, her husband, trust her with your emotions. It is not a sign of weaken for a husband to share with hiswife this way. Like you have aneed so does she. Let both needs come together and make both parties happy. 

Treat me as I am and that's just where I will stay. Treat me as if i were what i could be and that's what i will become.                                                                                 Unknown author 

When you do this, you will probably also find yourself feeling closer to her because you both have taken care of each other's needs.

Make me to feel the best way to make me feel great and become the better person I should be. 

Men's Needs

Erotic desires and fulfillment 

Recreational companionship 

An attractive spouse 

Domestic support 

Admiration  


Women's Needs 

Affection 

Conversation 

Honesty and openness 

Financial support

Family commitment 

It's so unfortunate that men and women are often unaware of what their partners need. Why  so? Perhaps because some of us are looking for what we can get rather than what we can give. Most of us are more than willing and ready to give, but we don't know how to best meet our partner's needs.

Appreciating and recognizing these needs and meeting them for one another will mean a stronger marriage and the ability to get through the rocky times that come.

Always remember to remind your partner how much you love them and also show them un your actions.

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The effects of daring to live a perfect life 


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