Building friendship with your partner consider these.
1. Make your friendship top priority: considering how important your friendship is to you. Each of us does what we want; nothing gets in the way of our doing what is most important to us. Don't say you don't have time for friendship but you have time for your business? If you really want to do something you will do it. If you truly want to nurture your friendship with your partner you will do it.
2. Cultivating transparency in your relationship: when we are honest with ourselves about who we are in the aspects of emotion and otherwise we can be a better partner. Our willingness to be open about who we are encourages trust and openness on the part of other person. Remember that it is very important to be yourself in your friendships. Be yourself. Always appreciate the freedom that comes with being whom you are. When you be yourself you will discover the freedom that comes with being who you are.
It's not good to wear a lot of masks—you might not remember which face is for which occasion.
3. Talking about your affection: It is very good for people to know that you love your paetner. Most men will always wish their partner will send them a love note. And she who has written the note was glad she risked sharing her affection. Sure he was too because men do want to know that we love you. And she wants to know that you love her too.
4. Love language: Learning how to say I love you to your partner helps to strengthen the relationship. Show them gesture of how much you love them and express to them that you love them and it is your little way to tell them that you love them.
Little acts of kindness are effective and powerful ways to strengthen your friendship with your mate.
Such thoughtful acts show to your loved one that you never take them for granted. It is very neccessary to telephone each other whenever they are not around. Going out to lunch, cinema and sharing hugs and corny jokes. For a special friendship give them a carefully planned events. Always be mindful of this expression of your love in the right language. Not only in words but in actions too in such a way that your partner will understand. Know what best communicates to her the better the love you have for her. And look out for the best everyday events that gives you the chance to communicate and express your love.
Again if you want to celebrate her special day like birthday, don't get her things that you'd like for yourself, but get her something that you know she loves so much. And you take her to a place she would like to be.
5. Give her freedom: love is never oppressive or possessive. Make sure your words and actions don't discourage her and keep her from growing and developing in her spirituality, her homemaking skills and even her hobbies. Allow your partner to be all that she was created to be. This means she must be given time away from you and home to improve her interests and skills that might be different than yours.
To enable her freedom discuss and figure things out, know what it can cost you to ensure the freedom. This should be a heart to heart talk or pillow talk to avoid one part feeling hurt.
Another freedom she needs is to have her own money that's financial independence so that she can feel she doesn't have to always come to you all the time asking for money. She also needs to establish credits should anything happen to you this economic tool will be in place.
You should know that freedom works in both ways. You as the man should also have the freedom of becoming the man you were meant to be. Truly most men fear losing their freedom and their partners unfortunately can easily make that fear a painful reality. But it is in the place of you men to balance your relationship with your partner.
Now one key of setting your partner free is to accept her without condition. Encourage her and be willing to allow for shifts in her friendship with you. As the seasons of your lives change, you will notice variations in your relationship.
Know that being your partner's friend will make your relationship more enjoyable and reliable.
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