Men are performance-oriented who feel they must have an acceptable level of production to be fulfilled. Meanwhile, as a performer, a man is
competitive and goal-oriented. As an initiator, he is vulnerable to risk and failure and, as a result, often defensive in his relationships—even with his partner (female).Men are performance-oriented when it comes to intercourse; orgasm is the goal. Women are interested in closeness. Women place more value on love, affection and romance, when you understand see also, How to build a healthy relationship this about your partner (woman) the man slows down and make sure that your intercourse should come out of agape and very natural instead of eros love.
Understanding your feelings and emotions makes it easier for you to find a perfect partner and blend.
When we truly want the peace that awaits on the other side of the tunnel, then we are ready to move ahead. It is good to know that the risks are real and the work is difficult, then saying that the reward of an authentic relationship are on the treacherous journey becomes understatement. No matter how ill their desire and urge for ero, you as a woman accepting to deal with it amicably shows how mature you are to retain and maintain your relationship.
When a man will want to defend himself from hurt and defeat by escaping the relationship. If not to ensure against failure in relationship a man works hard to succeed in business and he expects to have a submissive partner who will not only satisfy his eros but understands him and sticks to him for good partnership.
Moments of discipline and self denial are required to build a serious relationship.
Again, long term relationships are very risky for the man because they expose his weaknesses, thereby making him vulnerable to hurt and possible defeat. For the disciplined ones instead of moving closer to his woman, he will defend himself from hurt and defeat by escaping the relationship.
To maintain a healthy relationship the man works hard to succeed and so after faring for her needs would expect satisfaction of his libido that's where he sees eros love as the best type of love he can offer to his partner where as the woman doesn't see it same way. He wanted to talk and see herelf being listened to. She believes in expression of love, feelings and emotions before the eros love can take place but it is not so with the man, he is performance oriented.
Expression of love swings off and on does loving understanding.
One thing about men is that the value eros to be sign of loving them so you should know that I and my partner having much different in attitude about eros. My partner needs to be aware of this difference or we will never have our eros needs met in fullest and he will end up hurt.
When you as a man grows in your love for I your partner through erotic fulfillment you should know that it doesn't work like that for me. I want to be sure and trust your love for me that's the focus and interest of a woman.
To create and keep beautiful memories in your partner's life value your partner's feeling and mood.
Another thing you should know about me as a woman I place more value on love, affection and romance then the best thing for you to do is to slow down and to make sure that our lovemaking comes out of agape love than just eros love. The question of do you really need to slow down? Yes if you love me in a genuine and non erotic way first, you will find that both of us will achieve our eros love and fulfillment.
The huge amount of happiness you have in relationship doesn't just happen, it comes through loving understanding. And you work on it with understanding your partner's utmost desire and make them a priority.
Always be conservative about your partner's feelings and don't push them too fast or too slow. Make it work. Together you can!
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