When you fail to express your feelings, you die in hiding your feeling.
Women love to be in the pretence of a manly man. It makes women feel more feminine and more self-confident. Women love what's inside
more than what's outside. A manly man he doesn't feel compelled to use his strength to control other people. He enjoys an inner contentment that isn't based on accomplishments. Are you this kind of man? Or are you afraid to be gentle because others might consider you unmanly?The more you shy away from your expressing your love to someone you love, you end up not experiencing love.
Women can express their love more than men. Most men have difficulty expressing love. Relationship whether marriage or courtship is very hard work. The exacting kind of work that makes us look under a magnifying glass which shows all of our blemishes and imperfections. However women on the other hand are truly unique and ever difficult for men.
Before you confess your love for someone you have to know that love is more than just a feeling. Meanwhile, we all know from past experiences that feeling "in love"can be misleading and is often very frickle and can be misconcepted with falling in love. Feeling in love is more like coming to someone this way, today the feeling comes and tomorrow it disappears and is gone. However, individuals who make decisions based on their feelings are usually unstable in other areas of their lives.
Take a look at the following ways that can help you confess your love to someone.
1. Nobody can suppress feelings of love:# To go about confessing your love to someone, you have to take a step back. Think about how far your friendship with this person has gone. What your confession can do to your relationship. How the person is going to react. How it is going to affect your friendship. Consider all this, then you can go ahead to confess your love to the person.
2. Mean what you say:# You consider what you feel about someone. If you mean it and if the feeling is genuine and the direction of the love you have to say to someone when you don't really know what you feel alright. It is very neccessary to identify what you feel about this person. You have to know the difference kind of love here. Consider if what you feel is: friendly love, familar love, romantic love. Don't think love is all about puppy love, infatuation love only. Don't just say it because you think. You don't think, you should know what you feel and be specific.
The best thing you can do for yourself is to know the different between feeling in love and falling in love.
3. Being true in your intentions:# don't just say I love you when it's not your real intention. Know what you really want from the person. Not just because you want to get more attention from the person. You also have to know the responsibilities and commitment a romantic relationship comes with.
4. Ease in it:# it doesn't necessarily mean you must start with "I love you" confession. Why not start with confessing to the person how much you love them and feel about them. Start by expressing how you feel about this person. How you can't do without them. Make the person see and feel you. Let the person feel the sincerity in your words how much you love them. Then gauge how the person will react to your confession. If the person shows positive attitude towards your confession it means they feel same way you feel. You can now end by saying "I love you".
Self confidence and having your self exteem intact, feeling you can do it no matter what comes out of it.
5. Be bold in your confession:# don't hide from expressing yourself and your feeling to the person you love. Yes, there is possibility that the person may not feel the same way as you do. It is possible that the person may fall out of love with you in a short time but you have to tell this person how you are feeling about them.
But when you forget that it is necessary to have good intentions and be true in your intentions it affects your confession. Always know what you feel about someone before you think of confessing love to someone.
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