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10 ways to stop assault, abuse and molestation

The depression of abuse and molestation is therapeutic incurable. Are you a victim of rape or molestation of any kind or abuse or you are an abuser or molester? these 10 ways go a long way to help stop abuse

5 Ways Your Silence Speaks Volumes

Silence is a sleeping word when you are much awake. Silence speaks for itself. You may actually be speaking without words. Learn to pause, wait to get to the podium command the

7 Weirdest Thoughts of A virgin

It can only cost you little to know the truth and whatever it's, worth it. Starting this post with a weirdest comment could help us see where this is driving at. Really? Yeah. Virginity is not in any way special or something

How To Make Yourself Happy When You Are Sad

The best thing you can do to embrace peace of mind is to fall in love with life. It was a beautiful sunday, I wouldn't want my day to be boring so I took a quick decision on how I wanted my day to be. When I returned from church, I freshened up, found something to eat. I dressed up on my short dark blue jeans gown. I wore my black sneakers, wearing my wig to cover my weaved hair, I left the house. I was looking very happy and in my heart I felt I had already found Mr right. It started in the morning when I woke up, there was a bubbling joy in my heart that I felt fulfilled. When I dressed up in the morning to go to church, walking down the sand path in the street could be very irritable. Old Orlu road could have such a lumpy sand land. I tried jumping a heap of sand suddenly I heard a crack. It was my jean skirt. "This skirt I just sewed two days ago," I thought. Anger and regret filled my heart, I tried going to church with the torn skirt but my heart couldn't help c...

Kiss And Tell Prophets

It is only a fool they will tell of what will kill him but he would risk staying behind. I wouldn't have left the temple without a blind marriage arrangement. It is this blind marriage agreement I am scared of whenever it comes to

How To Flush Discomfort Out Of The System

If not for the word of God, violent shall be the answer to every act of intimidation. In the house of God, my respect for God that even if they dedicated and converted a shrine into a house of God, I would feel humbled in His

How Temperament Affects Your Relationship

The kindest and the happiest pair will will find occassion to forebear; and something everyday they live, to pity, and perhaps forgive.                                                                                 William Cowper You are aware that your partner doesn't react to situations, people, or life in general the way you do. Don't get it twisted, the reason is simple—

The Need To Protect The Girl Child

Women are very unique and are very difficult for men to understand.  As I walked out of the house that morning, with cheerful look not minding that my immediate elder brother scolded at me last night, I moved

How To Confess Your Love To Someone

When you fail to express your feelings, you die in hiding your feeling. Women love to be in the pretence of a manly man. It makes women feel more feminine and more self-confident. Women love what's inside

5 Ways To Deepen Your Friendship

Building friendship with your partner consider these. 1. M ake your friendship top priority: considering how important your friendship is to you. Each of us does what we want; nothing gets

Best Ways To Make Good Friends

If you want to make a friend be a friend. When you desire to find a friend if you want to have friends, you have to be friendly. That's great advice as far as it goes, but sometimes the process of finding friend could use a bit of a jump start. Follow this practial ideas for striking the friendship idea. Women have an easier time with friendship than men do. Women can hug, cry, hold hands and interlock their arms as they walk down the street, but men are not really that free to do these things. Men are activity-oriented and women are relationally-oriented, how can you vridge that gapto become friends with your partner. And to be friendly to others. After all you have to be a friend in order to have a friend. Best Ways To Make Friends  Print a complimentary card: now you keep a small supply of the the compliment cards in you purse or briefcase. So that it will be wasy to say to anyone you see you wish to make friends, "call me" Drop a phone contact: You don't go about...

10 Things That Girls Love

The only way to make a woman feel special is excessive showers of love. Girls like acts that show affection. I have always told you that women are emotional and like to be loved and make them feel loved. It is the duty

5 tips how to make A woman feel loved and invest in her

The only investment you need to explore a lovely relationship is making them feel you. To be the kind of friend you are supposed to be free yourself from any uncertainty in your relationship and dealing with your feelings to

Why Men Are The Way They Are

If you know a man who is erotic let me show you a man who cannot do with urge and libidinous satisfaction. Men are performance-oriented who feel they must have an acceptable level of production to be fulfilled. Meanwhile, as a performer, a man is

How To Build A Healthy Relationship

If you have not experienced love and feel loved then you lack a great thing. A friend is someone you love and the person loves you and you trust the person. A friend encourages you to move on and gives you

How To Venture Into A New Career Without Affecting Your Purpose

Success is all about leaving your comfort zone to the discomfort zone, facing your challenges squarely and determined to conquer. I wanted to venture into a different creative and lucrative job. So catering training came up to me as an option. "Oh, no! It is for secondary school

Why Strange Things Happen

Everything has been ordained, the only thing that remains is the manifest. I couldn't help beating my chest and pouring scorns at myself for not showing up on time at Njikoka local government to collect my certificate of National Service (CNS)and probably have pictograph album with my fellow corps members. Read also,  My unexciting passing out parade . I couldn't imagine myself going to Awka to collect my Certificate of National Service. My desire was to have my Certificate of National Service the same time with my fellow batch corps members, going to Awka was out of my plan. But at the same time, it couldn't be changed. The did had been done. It had happened I needed to align I learned that it's better to leave things the way they are than to beat yourself for nothing. Patience is all it takes to win. I couldn't wait for Tuesday to come. At least I have learned to accept and live with my fate. Though I was very angry to be among the corps members who weren't op...

My Unexciting Passing Out Parade

The terrible thing that can make one go insane is seeing all your plans filtered out like a crumb. The date for our passing out was very close. I was very excited and couldn't wait for the day to come. I was waiting impatiently. So the day had

5 Things That qualify A Good Woman

Your attitude can define you terrible person. Aunty Oby was a very terrible lady in her 50s. At NYSC camp Umunya she was proving tough lady, at times she would come looking pregnant and other times she would look not pregnant. But non of the camp officials was leaving the camp to see their families for the whole three weeks. As the corps members were in the camp, the remain there with us. During the three weeks orientation, she was trying to be friendly and nice but she was a mean type and couldn't work perfectly to disguise her true personality traits.  Read also ,  you don't need meanness to run this race called life . She was so mean not even her feign smile could conceal it.  In camp I was always busy walking around with pen and paper. When we were on the parade ground, or the pavilion and even on the lecture hall. Even if I forgot my jotter, I would take any paper I had with me to scrabble down something and this had become a routine to me and people around me, corps...

Why You Have To Show Gratitude

Thanksgiving gives way for more thanks. As the event was about to come to the close, I realized I had only sprayed money on the bride who was my friend and the groom but I still